Tuesday, November 22, 2011

How can I apologize for treating someone poorly ina previous relationship?

Invest in your love and to be happy.


When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.|||Absolutely. If you are harboring guilt or the other person is harboring ill will for you actions, it is always good to clear the air if possible. One warning though...don't expect to be met with open arms. Don't expect forgiveness or anything else from the other person. Just give them your apology and move on. It will be up to them as to how they handle it. Expect nothing...or a rough time from them. Sometimes people are so used to being bitter over things that they don't want to let go. Their bitterness helps them to cope with their own shortcomings. Accepting your apology would take that crutch away from them. That's why, sometimes, people can't forgive.|||You can apologize, but it may not mean much unless you change your behavior. Actions speak louder than words. If this person is going to be in your life from now on, treat them VERY well for the rest of your life. If you never see them again, treat everyone you meet as you would have treated the person you wronged. Anything less means you're all talk, and no action.|||You can do it, but don't expect the person to either take your apology or even want to speak with you in the first place. Some people like to leave the past in the past and move on.|||Say you are sorry and be specific. Keep in mind that apologizing doesn't mean they have to accept it or that anything will change. Asking for forgiveness is for your benefit, not theirs.|||Offer an apology and leave it at that.|||just say it. with no expectations...

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