Saturday, November 12, 2011

How can i be with my boyfriend when he lives ina different country and im 15?

Im 15 and i live in england and my boyfriend is 17 and he lives in new zealand i want to go and live there after i have finished all my GCSE's i will be 16 when i have finished them all but i dont know how i can live there at 16 years of age does any one have any ideas ?|||Wow much respect for trying hard for such a long distance relationship, mine failed. :-z


My advice is that you are quite young to be moving on your own such a far way from home and so is he at that age too. Moving for love is such a big decision in your life and quite frankly you are way too young for drama like that but I can see why you want to do it as I have been in the same situation before too except my gf (now ex) lives on the other side of the country. When we are this young we do things without thinking long and hard about it, like now you want to just be with him no matter what you have to do for it. In the long run, once you move here or he moves there are you both going to be happy together in 6 months after that?? Teenagers have much to learn, myself included and from what I have learn't it might not be such a good idea because there is going to be more to life than that. If you want to be this guy, fine my advice is don't move just yet wait at least you both are 18 and abit more mature adults as if you are still together and want to move to be with eachother it will be easier then. For now take advantage of technology with webchat, webcams, emails and even hand written letters and gifts in the mail. Hope all works well whatever you decide. Good Luck!|||You need to get your priorities straight.


First off, you're 15 years old. you are probably too young to have a boyfriend in the first place, and considering he is in a different country is just dumb.





My best advice to you is find a boyfriend in your own country. preferably in your own city since you can't drive yet.





long distance relationships are hard even when you CAN see the person your dating. 6000 miles away is ridiculous.|||simple finish high school and apply to university as an international student and since im guessing both new zealand and Britain follow the same system of education since new zealand was part of the common wealth (aka british colony at one time)wouldn't be hard for you to get there, just need to find a scholarship to pay for it if your having issues with the money and trust me if you look hard enough there are a ton of scholarships out there but i agree with the what someone already said he should be the one moving to where you are not the other way around freaking bum dosent know what hes doing to a poor girls heart how cold lol :P well best of luck|||Well since you're only fifteen, then for now, just communicate with him online, or on the phone. In all honesty, there is no way you could go and live in New Zealand alone, at sixteen. You could go overseas for university once you're done with high school, but to be honest... don't rush things, yeah? You don't even know if this is going to last. No disrespect, but you're only fifteen. Hormones. Don't throw your life away for a relationship that may not even last.|||if you're 16 you can go to boarding school in new zealand


why doesn't he move to england, it would be much easier since he is older|||Umm...no. This is ridiculous. Find a boyfriend in your own city.

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